| Do you find that you often have thoughts of | | | | ones do. |
| making goals, but you have difficulty actually | | | | Adults may have fears of flying, fears of not |
| setting them in place? This happens to millions of | | | | paying their bills on time and fears of what may |
| people everyday, it is simply for three reasons. | | | | happen to their children when they go off to |
| The first is that people are lazy, they exude | | | | attend college. A child only had fears usually over |
| more energy coming up with excuses then they | | | | getting on bike after a fall or petting an animal at |
| would if they actually began working on their | | | | the local zoo. For the adults that are afraid of |
| goals. The second is the fear to fail, whether you | | | | setting goals, it is a different types of fear that |
| are a successful individual in life or you have | | | | not one of being scared as much as it is one of |
| suffered a few blows to your life long plans, it is | | | | setting themselves for failure. There is a public |
| natural to be cautious to set yourself up to | | | | image to uphold as adults and if you start |
| possibility of failure. The third reason is actually | | | | something and do not finish it or start something |
| finding the time to manage it all and putting in the | | | | and you are not successful at it, you fear what |
| time it takes to complete your goals. | | | | others around you will say. This is nothing other |
| Being lazy is actually a very natural feeling, the | | | | than high school peer pressure festering inside of |
| problem is your mind is fully aware that being lazy | | | | you as an adult. Do not ever allow yourself to not |
| is not a good method for success so when you | | | | try something new or set a goal for your life that |
| ponder an idea and you sit around not doing it, | | | | is important to you simply based on the fact of |
| your mind will eventually begin attacking your | | | | what others might judge your actions for. |
| emotions causing you stress until you either | | | | You live once, you live for yourself and what you |
| through the idea of the goal out the window, or | | | | can make of your life and the lives of your family |
| you start tackling it. Some of course, are going to | | | | if you created one, make it a good one! Lastly, |
| be much lazier than others as that is a character | | | | actually putting the work into your goals is the |
| trait you either possess or you do not. Being | | | | easy part. The goal was evidently meaningful |
| afraid or fearful is also a very normal feeling. | | | | enough for you to make it in the first place, all |
| There is a common misconception that mostly | | | | you need to do is give it the time and attention it |
| children experience fear, when actually adults have | | | | deserves to give that overwhelming feeling of |
| battles with it much more often than the little | | | | success when you conquer it. |