| All relationships and dating prospects start with | | | | important relationships. Putting things on paper is |
| you, your attitude and your level of self-esteem. | | | | taking action. Taking action leads to results. |
| Are you happy with where you are in your life? | | | | Results bring feelings of success. Success boosts |
| Are you content with your career? Are you | | | | self-esteem. Do not under-estimated the power |
| motivated? Is something missing? Are you afraid | | | | of writing. Written goals are different and more |
| to start dating? If so, then you need a | | | | powerful than roaming thoughts. |
| self-esteem boost. | | | | Ask yourself if you are in a good place, |
| Take a sheet of paper and a pen and make | | | | emotionally and mentally. Be honest. Do you fear |
| three columns. | | | | relationships? Are you sure you want to enter |
| 1. In the first column, list your long-term goals, i.e., | | | | into a loving relationship? Make another list, with |
| where you want to be in one year. | | | | pros and cons about dating and/or serious |
| 2. In the second, list your short-term goals, i.e., | | | | relationships. Are you interested in a long-term |
| where you want to be in one month. | | | | loving relationship or something lighter, like dating |
| 3. In the third, list the ways that you can possibly | | | | occasionally? At least this way, you will really |
| reach those goals. | | | | know if you really want to be involved with |
| Example: | | | | someone and to what extent. Honesty will |
| COLUMN 1:Want a serious, loving relationship | | | | definitely raise your levels of self-esteem. If you |
| COLUMN 2: Want to start dating | | | | don't know what you want, or accept something |
| COLUMN 3:Start dating | | | | that you're really not sure you want then the |
| Now, take a second sheet of paper and make | | | | consequences will only lead to lowering your |
| another list with three columns. | | | | self-esteem and confidence. Therefore, misleading |
| 1. In the first column write about your positive | | | | goals will affect your self-esteem and that will |
| attributes. | | | | affect your life and relationships. |
| 2. In the second, write about your negative | | | | If you believe that someone can make you |
| attributes. | | | | happy, you're wrong. I am sure you've heard the |
| 3. In the third, write some action you can take to | | | | saying, "Happiness Comes from Within". Find out |
| change the negative attributes into positive ones. | | | | what brings you down and work on that. You can |
| A simple example: | | | | make yourself happy by learning more about you |
| COLUMN 1: I am very loving | | | | and what makes you unhappy. Love yourself in |
| COLUMN 2: I am edgy/blowup easily | | | | order for others to love you back. |
| COLUMN 3: Count to 10 before speaking when | | | | The bottom line is that confidence, self-esteem |
| irritated | | | | goes hand in hand with success, dating, love and |
| Simple lists like these can improve your life | | | | everything in between. So follow the steps above |
| immensely, including dating prospects and other | | | | to get your self-esteem boost. |